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Friday, May 23, 2008

Time for changes...

Ok, I've been doing some thinking (I know, that could be dangerous). Anyway, I'm spending too much time on the computer, I'm cutting my time way short. Infact, I just deleted the one place I spend the most time, I'm done. I'm not hairflipping, just prioritizing. What better time to do this than at the beginning of summer. My kids will be home, I'm going to spend time with them instead of just being here with them. They're only this age once, I'm going to take advantage of it. I will still keep in touch with my friends, & heaven knows, I'm not giving up IMing, or my blog. I'm just not going to spend hours on here like I have been.

So, there you have it. I've been doing a lot of thinking & praying & this is what I need to do right now. I can't get sucked back in. It's time for me to sit back & really concentrate on my family & also, to decide who it is that I trust & who I can honestly consider my "friend". I've been burned too many times, this last time, well, that was 1 too many, so... I am going to be more guarded from here on out. If you've proven I can trust you, you don't have anything to worry about.

It's time for changes, it's time for ME to take control of MY life. Like a friend of mine told me yesterday... it's time to focus on the positive & to continue moving forward. It's time to live my life for me. It's time to stop giving others the power to take my joy. I need to stop wasting time on those that are trying to "steal" that from me. THEY AREN'T WORTH MY TIME!!!


Yep, things are changing & I'm ready!

6 comments:

CloverGirl said...

I'm thinking I should learn to talk on the phone.

Tracy Kosofsky said...

If SS is the delete....I will miss you! Have a terrific summer and enjoy your kiddos...Tracy in FL

Casey said...

I need to make some changes as well. I spend way too many hours on SS than I should. I may just join you in the change.

Midnite Scrapper said...

Powerful words. We all need to do this from time to time. Thanks for the reminder of putting things into perspective!

Traci said...

I don't blame you, I have had to do this from time to time myself.

Now if only I could get DH to do the same with his tv time, lol.

Kaye said...

Good for you! I'm trying to do the same thing -- trying to spend more time with my boys and taking care of my house and spending less time on the computer.